"We never did it that way when I was growing up!"
"That's not how I was raised"
"I've been in this church my whole life, and we never..."
I hear these sentiments a lot from LCMS church members. It is what I call the "Kneejerk Conservative Impulse." You see something new. You experience something different. Someone, maybe the pastor, makes a change - small or large - and without much thinking, you react.
I'm here to say that's not always a bad thing. In many cases, it actually is a good instinct, and keeps the church out of trouble. We want to "conserve", that is, to keep things the same as they've been. It's usually a good impulse. They way things are, writ large, must be pretty good - at least that's our assumption. It's why I'm here, after all, at this church. I like it this way. If I didn't, I'd find something else. And now don't you go changing things!
Most of us assume that "how we were raised" and our experiences as such are generally good, healthy and normal. They are the baseline. That's how we've "always done it." Maybe we think that's how the church has "always done it." I've even heard prominent LCMS pastors and professors speak this way. "My dad was a pastor and did things this way..."
But not so fast.
When it comes to things like Scripture and doctrine, we ought to be VERY conservative. We keep them, and do not change them! Scripture is God's word. Revelation warns us sternly about adding or taking away from it. Mark this well!
But we must be wise and discerning. Not everything is commanded or forbidden. And yet not all indifferent matters (adiaphora) are equally indifferent. Everything is permissible, but not everything is helpful (1 Corinthians 10:23). And not every tradition, large or small, is helpful in every time and place. Nor is every tradition truly "the way it's always been done."
Just as we must discern what is truly adiaphora, we must also discern between adiaphora. Just as we are wise to adopt a default mode against change, we must also wisely adopt helpful changes when and where we can. Of course the word "helpful" does the heavy lifting here.
So it goes like this: Someone proposes or makes a change. The Conservative Kneejerk Reaction kicks in. "We've never done it that way!" But perhaps rather than jerk the knee, we ought to engage the mind, and think:
Is this change permissible? Is it within the bounds of Scripture? Is it in keeping with what the church has done? Does it serve the Gospel or distract from Christ? Does it promote the unity of the church, or concern itself with only the "me" or "us" of local preference?
And lo, and behold, the change proposed may end up being MORE conservative - that is, reverting to an earlier tradition or practice, which someone long ago failed to "conserve". Yes, it may be more faithful to Scripture, and more in keeping with the Confessions.
If, after weighing all this, the change makes sense, we may consider even further another factor - injury to consciences. Even the reformers held off on certain corrective changes for the sake of the laity who didn't know any better, and had not yet been taught about these things. We don't want to create needless confusion, anger, or other such reactions. So rather than invoke chaos in the church, the wise pastor teaches toward changes, uses discernment and patience, and bears with people at times who may not yet be ready to move. It takes time, also, for the pastor to build trust, and that goes a long way with these things, too.
The "Conservative Kneejerk Reaction" is kind of the opposite of the "It's all adiaphora! Anything goes" posture that has brought such bad practices into the church. And often, those opposed to one of these errors seem to fall into the opposite ditch.
That's a lot to think about, honestly. It's kind of a big deal to change things in the church.


