The season of Lent is more serious, contemplative, and even
slightly somber. It is a penitential season.
At the end of Epiphany, we sing a “farewell to Alleluias” in which we
find the lyrics, “the solemn time is coming, when our tears for sin must flow.” This is a poetic description of our Lenten
penitence.
Today, it's Jesus who is even brought to tears at the grave
of his friend Lazarus. But it is not tears of repentance as we might weep. Jesus weeps, according to his human nature,
in a very real and human reaction of grief.
Most of us know that this verse, John 11:35, “Jesus wept”,
is the shortest in the Bible. But let's zero in on it today, especially, and
there in our Savior's tears find a message of sin and grace.
First, some context. Jesus was approaching Jerusalem.
Bethany, where Lazarus and his sisters lived, is really a suburb of the Holy
City. And there, in Jerusalem, Jesus knew he would meet his fate at the hands
of the Jews. He knew his own death was approaching. Even his disciples seemed
to sense things were reaching this turning point, for Thomas said, “Let us also
go, that we may die with him”.
We too, know that Holy Week and Good Friday are approaching.
We too should be preparing mentally, emotionally, spiritually, for the
observance of our Lord's suffering and death.
But here in Bethany, it was Lazarus who had died. Jesus had
been called when Lazarus was still alive, but sick. But his arrival was, it
seemed, too late. By the time Jesus got there, Lazarus worsened and died.
For two days Jesus delayed.
Strange to us, and even more disturbing to Mary and Martha. Why didn’t Jesus drop everything and hasten
to the bedside of Lazarus? Why didn’t he
seem to care that his friend was dying?
Why did he wait, delay, and not answer the prayers of his people, and
honor the needs of his friend?
Here is an experience with which we can relate. When we call upon God for aid, healing, peace,
or a way out of our troubles. So often
the answer seems to be, “Not quite yet.
Be patient. Your prayer will be
answered, but not when you desire, and perhaps not how you desire.” We are often mystified and repeat our own
little mantra, “If only God had answered me…. If only this or that had been
different…. If only my prayers were heard”.
And our faith forgets itself. We
forget who we are praying to, and that his wisdom far exceeds our own. We forget that his timing is always
best. His will is always perfectly
done. So here, we must learn with Mary
and Marth, that our “if only you would have” sentiment is not well placed onto
Jesus. He knows best. We ought to trust him.
So why did Jesus wait?
Jesus tells us. This illness does
not lead to death. It is for the glory
of God. Lazarus has fallen asleep, but I
go to awaken him.
Jesus certainly knew what he was going to do. He knew he was going to raise Lazarus from
death. He had already prayed to the
Father about it and had been answered.
But knowing all this, it is perhaps even harder to fathom why he wept at
the grave.
So was Jesus crying at the grave of his friend out of guilt?
Knowing that he could have saved him, had he not dilly-dallied? No, of course
not. Jesus knew how this would end. He told his disciples, “for your sake I am
glad I was not there, so that you may believe.” He tells Martha the same, “I am
the resurrection and the life” and “Your brother will live”. No, Jesus knows
how it ends. That's not why he was weeping.
Why then? Was he weeping in some sort of show or sham? Like
the hired mourners who wailed along with the funeral procession and at the
tomb? Was he faking these tears? Of course not. Our Lord is always honest, even
in his actions.
Was this an example for us to follow? To let us know that
it's ok for us to weep at the graves of our loved ones? It might not be why he
wept but that certainly is true. The scriptures never tell us not to cry when
death comes, but only not to grieve like those who have no hope. Yes, even for Christians
who believe in the promises of God about life after death, paradise and
resurrection, even for us death is troublesome and painful. There is grief even
when there is hope.
So too for Jesus. And perhaps we are approaching the reason
for his tears. Even knowing fully well that Lazarus will rise again, and
shortly, Jesus is still moved by the sorrow of death. Death is no friend to God
and his people. Death is the wages of sin. Death is the interloper, which does
not belong in this creation but has come to stay. Like Satan, it is the enemy. It
is the necessary result of sinful flesh to die, and return to the dust from
which it is formed. And with death comes pain, sorrow, grief, and fear. Nothing
pleasant, there. This is why Jesus weeps.
So too, his soul would be deeply troubled in the Garden of
Gethsemane, a few days later. “My soul is very sorrowful, even to death” he
said. For again, Jesus would have to face death. Now, even his own, but
nonetheless.
And even though he knew how it would end – even though he
knew the resurrection was coming afterward – still he is troubled. There is
much to learn here about godly suffering.
My dear friends, Christianity is no trite system of positive
thinking in which we are to simply put on a happy face. It is no promise of a
life free from tears. Indeed, the opposite. Christians are told of the
persecution, suffering and cross-bearing that goes along with our faith. And
God never makes a promise that he will keep us from all pain and unpleasant
experience. No, this side of heaven we
are sure to face every manner of cause for weeping, and no one can escape the
pall of death that covers all people.
But it’s not all tears.
There is hope.
There are beautiful promises about the world to come – a
heavenly Jerusalem in which all suffering ends, and where God will wipe every
tear from our eyes. There will be no more mourning there, for even death itself
will be destroyed. And the hope of that day, the promise of that future, does
give comfort to us in, even in the midst of our worst earthly tears.
As does the promise of his presence. We know that he is with
us always, even in our suffering, even to the end of the age. We know that
nothing can separate us from the love of God in Jesus Christ – not trouble or
nakedness or danger or sword. He says, “I will never leave you. I will never
forsake you.” And we are comforted, even in our tears.
And we know that he sympathizes with us in our weakness, for
he, Christ, was like us in every way, yet without sin. He experienced all of our
human sorrow and then some. He is the “man of sorrows, and well acquainted with
grief”. He even knew the pain of death – death of a loved one, death he would
face for us all on the cross.
I imagine those tears of sorrow turned to tears of joy as
Lazarus came out of his grave at the command of the Lord. I imagine the
mourners, and the sisters, and perhaps even Jesus himself – wept tears anew,
tears of joy seeing Lazarus walking and talking and alive.
So too, the empty tomb of Christ would give all of us, his
people, cause for weeping tears of joy. For not only is our Lord alive again,
but his resurrection means that he has conquered death for us all. He is our
forerunner in death and in resurrection – going where we will someday follow.
In Jesus we can see our future. In Jesus we have hope and comfort.
When life brings you to tears, remember that Jesus wept.
Know that he understands. And far from dismissing your tears of pain, he offers
sympathy and hope. For as Lazarus was raised, Christ was raised, so we all
shall be raised on that great and glorious day when God will wipe every tear
from our eyes. In Jesus Christ our Lord, Amen.